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Why Great Guys Stop Pursuing You After A Few Dates…
They don’t stop pursuing because of a lack of chemistry.
They stop because your walls are up.
I’ll explain.
You want to be in a committed relationship.
You want to be married.
You want a family.
You’ve been successful in every other area of your life except love…
And you’ve been going on dates every week to change that.
The only problem is that every time you meet a great guy who checks your boxes for a husband…
Intelligent. Has his life together. Marriage-minded.
He stops pursuing after a few dates and you’re not sure why.
The real reason?
Because even though you want to be in a committed relationship…
Deep down, there’s a part of you that’s afraid of getting hurt again…
So you sit across from him at dinner asking yourself:
“Can I really trust him?”
“Will he be faithful?”
On his end, he feels you being guarded…
And it confuses him, because he’s trying to step closer to you… but you keep stepping back.
So he steps back… and chooses to focus on someone else who is more receptive to him.
The problem isn’t a lack of chemistry.
It’s that deep down, you’re afraid to get hurt again, so your walls are up.
And until that changes, this pattern will continue.
The good news?
When you know how to heal that fear of getting hurt again at its root, so that you’re showing as the version of you who feels confident in your discernment and feels safe enough to let love in…
That’s when you’ll let the man you’ve been waiting for in.
That’s when you’ll have the committed relationship you’ve been dreaming of.
And that’s exactly what I’ll show you how to do inside Fully Safe & Fully Chosen.
It’s a 6-week 1-on-1 coaching experience where…
I’ll show you how to go from having the marriage-minded men you like stop pursuing you… to being in a committed relationship where you feel fully chosen and fully safe…
By healing your fear of getting hurt again at its root so you allow the man you’ve been waiting for in.
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Giovanni Chekwa
Giovanni Chekwa
Giovanni is a transformational coach who helps smart women to go from seeing things fizzle out with great guys they meet… to being in a committed relationship where they feel fully chosen and fully safe.
He's a graduate of Johns Hopkins University... and he lives in the Washington, D.C. metro area with his wife of over 20 years and their four children.
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