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Does Your Husband Shut Down Every Time You Tell Him How Lonely And Unsupported You Feel?
You want your marriage to work. But if you’re being honest… you’re exhausted.
You’re at your wit’s end.
Because you’ve been having this same conversation with your husband about feeling ignored and unsupported...
Over and over again…
And nothing ever changes.
And it’s frustrating… because you’re someone who’s used to figuring things out.
But when it comes to your marriage… nothing you try seems to work.
You’ve tried counseling.
You’ve talked to your pastor.
And you’ve sat him down more times than you can count and said:
“I feel alone in this marriage.”
His response?
His response?
“I don’t know what you want from me!”
It’s like he’s not even hearing you.
And it’s so confusing…
Because you know he’s a good man… and you know he loves you.
You don’t want to break up your family… but it’s starting to feel like divorce might be the only option.
And you just can’t understand why he won’t hear you.
He’s the problem or the bad guy.
And when someone feels like they’re the bad guy in the conversation…
They stop trying to fix it and start trying to get out of the conversation.
So while you’re trying to say “we need to fix this”…
What he’s hearing is...
“You’re failing at being a good husband.”
And when a person feels like they’re being told they're failing...
Especially when they *believe* they're trying…
They don’t lean in.
They feel attacked...
They shut down...
They get defensive... or…
They try to leave the conversation.
That’s when he actually tries to understand what you’re feeling.
That’s when he’ll start showing up for you the way you’ve been wanting him to.
And that’s exactly what I help you do inside “Understood.”
It’s a 6-week 1-on-1 coaching experience where...
I’ll show you how to approach him in a way that makes him feel safe and like he is part of the solution... and not the problem…
So he can fully hear and understand you...
And he can start showing up for you the way you’ve been wanting him to.
If you’re ready for him to start fully showing up for you…
Tap the button below for more info...
Rooting for you,
Giovanni Chekwa
Giovanni Chekwa
Giovanni is a transformational coach who helps smart women to go from feeling lonely and unsupported in their marriages... to finally feeling heard and getting their needs met by their husbands.
He's a graduate of Johns Hopkins University... and he lives in the Washington, D.C. metro area with his wife of over 20 years and their four children.
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