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Trying To Get Your Husband To Talk After He Threatened Divorce… But He Keeps Pulling Away?
“Maybe we should just get a divorce.”
That’s what your husband said at the end of your last argument… and you haven’t been the same since.
You immediately decided that you were going to fight for your marriage, because you meant every word in your vows.
And yet…
Every time you try to talk to your husband about the issues you both have, hoping to resolve them…
He withdraws.
And the more you try to talk, the more he withdraws.
And you’re sitting here thinking: “After everything I’ve done for him in this marriage… why won’t he just talk to me?”
Here’s what you’re missing.
You’ve been trying to convince him to talk to you… rather than helping him remember why he fell in love with you in the first place.
When you first met, the way he used to feel in your presence made him cut off every other woman and get down on one knee for you.
And when a man who loves you starts to withdraw…
It's not that he no longer loves you.
It’s that he always feels tense and stressed when he's around you... instead of feeling at peace like he used to…
And he is starting to quietly give up on ever feeling that way again.
The good news?
This is fixable.
And when you know what he needs to see from you to immediately remember why he fell in love with you?
That’s when the fights will taper off and you’ll be able to talk again and actually resolve things without him pulling away…
That’s when he’ll start wanting to be around you again and spend time with you.
And that’s why I’m opening up a few spots for a handful of women to work with me 1-on-1…
And I’ll be helping them to go from seeing their husbands shutting down and withdrawing…
To him initiating conversations again… smiling when they walk in the room… and even sharing a laugh…
And they’ll do this by learning how to show up in a way that has him remembering why he fell in love with them.
Tap the button below if you’re ready for him to share a laugh with you again...
Giovanni Chekwa
Giovanni Chekwa
Giovanni is a transformational coach who helps smart women to save their marriages.
He's a graduate of Johns Hopkins University... and he lives in the Washington, D.C. metro area with his wife of over 20 years and their four children.
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