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Been Asking Your Husband For More Quality Time… And Yet He’s Still Being Distant?
You want to have the kind of marriage where you and husband are close and connected again like when you first met…
More date nights…
More laughs, hugs and kisses…
More deep conversations where an hour goes by and you don’t even notice…
And yet… despite sitting in multiple couples counseling sessions and clearly asking him for more quality time…
Each time, he says he’ll make an effort…
But then nothing really changes… and he’s still distant.
And it makes no sense, because you know you’re an amazing wife.
You know you’re still gorgeous.
You know you’re a great person to be around.
And yet, he doesn’t and you’re not sure why.
The truth?
It’s not that your husband doesn’t love you any more.
It’s that you’ve both accidentally fallen into a dynamic were he no longer feels the primal urge to pursue you.
And it’s not your fault.
Early in the relationship, he was the pursuer. He was persistent. He couldn’t get enough of you.
But over time, without either of you doing anything wrong, that dynamic quietly flipped.
The relationship became comfortable. Familiar. Settled.
He stopped pursuing... not because he stopped loving you... but because something in him stopped feeling the urge to pursue.
But when you learn how to start showing in a way that stokes that primal urge and makes him want to pursue you again…
That’s when he’ll start walking through the front door after work and immediately seek you out…
That’s when he’ll start planning intimate dates without you asking.
That’s when you’ll start getting “I was just thinking about you” text messages from him again while you’re at work.
And that’s exactly what I’ll be teaching inside ‘He’s Pursuing Again’.
It’s an 8-week 1-on-1 coaching experience where I’ll be showing a few women how to start showing up in a way that makes their husbands feel the urge to pursue them again.
Tap the button below to take the first step...
Giovanni Chekwa
Giovanni Chekwa
Giovanni is a transformational coach who helps smart women to have the kind of marriages where their husbands light up when they walk in the room again... and look at them the way he did when they first met.
He's a graduate of Johns Hopkins University... and he lives in the Washington, D.C. metro area with his wife of over 20 years and their four children.
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