You want to be in a serious relationship that leads to marriage.
You’re actively dating.
And yet despite your efforts…
Every time you meet someone you’re excited about…
Things start off great…
Chemistry off the charts.
So many things in common.
Amazing dates.
And yet… three or four months later, you both are still doing exactly the same things.
No conversation about exclusivity.
No deeper commitment.
And when you finally ask him where this is going…
He tells you he’s not looking for anything serious right now.
And you sit there asking yourself…
“Why the heck do I keep attracting these guys who don’t want to commit?”
The answer?
It’s not that you magically attract unavailable men.
It’s that when you’re just getting to know a guy, you show up confident with your standards intact.
But the moment you really start liking him, part of you starts to get scared of losing him…
So you become more accommodating…
More willing to make exceptions to your standards…
More willing to tolerate things you usually wouldn’t accept.
Unavailable men pick up on how much you’re willing to tolerate…
And it makes them feel comfortable keeping things casual.
This is why you’ve ended up in this situation so many times.
The truth is that having standards and maintaining them when you really like someone are two different things.
And this cycle will continue as long as that fear of losing a man you like keeps running the show.
But when you know how to get rid of that fear?
Maintaining your standards becomes easy…
And you‘ll not only repel men who were never going to commit anyway…
You’ll also start attracting men who are ready for a serious relationship.
That’s exactly why I’m launching a new 6-week 1-on-1 coaching experience to help women in this situation.
I’ll show you how to get rid of your fear of losing a guy you like…
So you can stop attracting men who only want something casual and start attracting men who are ready for a serious relationship.
If you’re done having your time wasted in situationships and you’re ready for something real…
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Giovanni Chekwa
