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Does Your Husband Get Defensive Every Time You Tell Him You Feel Like His Roommate?
You’ve sat your husband down multiple times and told him how you feel like his roommate and not his wife.
You’ve told him how he no longer spends time with you or gives you the same affection or attention he used to...
And yet every time you have that conversation with him…
He gets defensive… and nothing changes.
And if you’re being honest… it bothers the heck out of you because you know you’re an amazing wife to him.
You know for a fact that most of your married girlfriends don’t do half as much for their husbands as you do for yours.
Heck! Some of them treat their husbands like crap…
And yet their husbands still worship them.
But you do everything to make your husband’s life easier…
And you just don’t get why you get treated like his roommate, and not his wife.
The real reason this is happening isn’t because he doesn’t love you.
It’s because somewhere along the line… you unintentionally started showing up to your marriage in a way that made *you* the one doing the chasing.
You became the pursuer and he became the pursued.
You took one his role and he took on yours.
And until that dynamic changes, you’re going to continue feeling ignored because he’s no longer doing the chasing… you are.
In my world, I show my clients how to start showing up in a way that naturally makes their husbands *want* to be the pursuer again…
And when you do that?
That’s when he starts going on walks with you and holding your hand again without you asking.
That’s when you start waking up with his arm around you again.
That’s when you start having belly laughs together again at night out that he planned without you asking.
If I offered to show you how to start showing up in a way that naturally makes your husband *want* to take back his role as the pursuer again…
Over the course of 90 days…
Would you take me up on that offer?
Tap the button below to take the first step...
Giovanni Chekwa
Giovanni Chekwa
Giovanni is a transformational coach who helps smart women to get over their breakups.
He's a graduate of Johns Hopkins University... and he lives in the Washington, D.C. metro area with his wife of over 20 years and their four children.
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