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Why You Keep Attracting Men Who Only Want Something Casual…
You know you’re a great catch… brains, beauty and a kind heart…
And yet…
Every time you meet a man you like… and things start going well…
He tells you he wants to keep things casual.
And you sit there asking yourself… “Why does this keep happening to me?”
Here’s what I see happening to so many women in this situation:
You start dating a guy you’re really attracted to.
You know you want something more.
But the problem is you don’t speak up.
Why?
Because somewhere along the line, you learned that if you don’t make people feel comfortable… they won’t love you and they’ll leave.
So you tell yourself… “I don’t want to ruin it. I’m just going to go with the flow.”
And then when you finally get brave enough to say what you really want…
Now he’s confused, because you came across as not wanting anything serious.
The problem isn’t that you’re attracting men who only want casual.
It’s that you’re not filtering them out early because you don’t want to ruin it.
But when you shift from going with the flow…
To showing up as a woman who is upfront about what she wants because you *know* you’re worthy of being fully chosen…
That’s when you’ll filter out men who were never going to commit anyway. And start making space for men who are.
That’s exactly what I help you do inside Commitment-Minded.
It’s a 6-week 1-on-1 coaching experience…
Where I’ll show you how to start showing up as a woman who is upfront about what she wants because you *know* you’re worthy of being fully chosen…
If you’re ready for a commitment-minded man…
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Giovanni Chekwa
Giovanni Chekwa
Giovanni is a transformational coach who helps smart women to go from attracting men who only want something casual... to attracting a commitment-minded man.
He's a graduate of Johns Hopkins University... and he lives in the Washington, D.C. metro area with his wife of over 20 years and their four children.
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