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Keep Attracting Men Who Only Want Something Casual? Here’s Why…

You want to be with a man who fully chooses you.

Where he puts his hand on the small of your back at a party and introduces you to his friends as 'my girlfriend.’

Where you hear him say 'I told my mom about you' and your heart skips a beat.

Where you have our first real disagreement and you just talk it through… instead of feeling like you almost lost him. 

And yet… you’ve found yourself in another situation where…

You’ve been going on dates with this man for months. 
You’ve cooked for him. 
You’ve rearranged your schedule for him. 
You’ve started telling your friends about him. 

Only to hear him calmly say… “I’m not looking for anything serious right now.”

And part of you is starting to think that men your age just don't want to commit.

It’s not that men your age don’t want to commit.

It’s that you go into these situations with high standards, knowing what you want…

But the moment you catch feelings, you quietly abandon those standards, so you don't lose him. 

And that’s why you keep ending up in this situation.

You stop choosing you and your standards… hoping that it’ll make it easier for him to choose you.

And I get it… love can make you do things you wouldn’t normally do. 

The only problem is that… the commitment-phobic man is drawn to women who will drop their standards for him.

While the marriage-minded man requires the woman who will bear his last name to have standards for herself.

When you know how to show up as the woman who holds her standards even after catching feelings, everything changes.

That’s when you’ll meet the man who will proudly introduce you to his friends at a party as “my girlfriend.”

That’s when you’ll wake up to “good morning gorgeous” texts instead of only getting “hey, stranger” texts between 10 pm and 1 am.

That’s when you’ll go to sleep without that low-level hum of anxiety about where things stand between you both.

And that’s exactly what I’ll show you how to do inside… She Has Her Man.

It’s a 6-week 1-on-1 coaching experience where…

I’ll show you how to show up as the woman who holds her standards even after catching feelings…so that you attract a man who proudly chooses you.             

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Giovanni Chekwa

Giovanni is a transformational coach who helps smart women to go from attracting men who only want something casual… to attracting a man who fully chooses them.

He's a graduate of Johns Hopkins University... and he lives in the Washington, D.C. metro area with his wife of over 20 years and their four children.
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