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Why You Keep Attracting Men Who Only Want Something Casual... 

You're smart, ambitious and a great catch...

You’re actively dating and want to be married within the next year.

And yet…

Every time you meet a man you like… and things start going well…

He tells you he wants to keep things casual.

And you sit there asking yourself… “Why does this keep happening to me?”

Here’s what I see happening to so many women in this situation:

You start dating a guy you’re really attracted to. 

You know you want something more. 

But deep down, there’s a part of you that’s afraid that if you’re honest and upfront about what you really want that he won’t stay.

So you tell yourself… “I don’t want to ruin it. I’m just going to go with the flow.”

And then when you finally get brave enough to say what you really want… 

You find out that he never really wanted a relationship in the first place… and you’ve wasted weeks or months with him. 

The problem isn’t that you’re attracting men who only want something casual. 

It’s that your fear of being honest about what you really want keeps you wasting time with guys that were never going to commit.

And as long as that fear is running the show, you’ll continue this pattern.

But when you know how to start showing up as the version of you who is radiant, confident and unapologetic about what you really want…

That’s when you’ll filter out men who were never going to commit anyway. 

And you make it easier for the attractive men who want the same thing you do… to find you. 

That’s exactly what I help you do inside Radiant & Unapologetic. 

It’s a 6-week 1-on-1 coaching experience…

Where I’ll show you how to start showing up as the version of you who is radiant, confident and unapologetic about what you really want…

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Giovanni Chekwa

Giovanni is a transformational coach who helps smart women to go from attracting men who only want something casual... to attracting a commitment-minded man.

He's a graduate of Johns Hopkins University... and he lives in the Washington, D.C. metro area with his wife of over 20 years and their four children.
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