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Why You Keep Attracting Men Who Only Want Something Casual...
You're smart, ambitious and a great catch...
You want to be married within the next year... and you're actively going on dates and meeting new people...
And yet…
Every time you meet a man you like… and things start going well…
He tells you he wants to keep things casual.
The first time it happened, you didn’t think much of it…
But the second time, you sat there asking yourself… “Why does this keep happening to me?”
Here’s what I see happening to so many women in this situation:
You start dating a guy you’re really attracted to.
You know you want something more.
But deep down, there’s a part of you that’s afraid that if you’re honest and upfront about what you really want that he’ll reject you.
So you tell yourself… “I don’t want to ruin it. I’m just going to go with the flow.”
Then you wait for his feelings to catch up to yours…
Only to hear him tell you he’s not looking for anything serious when you have the “define the relationship” conversation.
The problem isn’t that you’re attracting men who only want something casual.
It’s that your fear of saying what you really want has kept you invested in guys who were never going to commit… instead of filtering them out early.
And as long as that fear is running the show, you’ll continue this pattern.
But when you know how to start showing up as the version of you who is radiant, confident and unapologetic about what you really want…
That’s when you’ll filter out men who were never going to commit.
And you make it easier for the attractive men who want the same thing you do… to find you.
That’s exactly what I help you do inside Radiant & Unapologetic.
It’s a 6-week 1-on-1 coaching experience…
Where I’ll show you how to start showing up as the version of you who is radiant, confident and unapologetic about what you really want…
So you can make it easier for attractive men who want the same thing you do… to find you.
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Giovanni Chekwa
Giovanni Chekwa
Giovanni is a transformational coach who helps smart women to go from attracting men who only want something casual... to attracting a commitment-minded man.
He's a graduate of Johns Hopkins University... and he lives in the Washington, D.C. metro area with his wife of over 20 years and their four children.
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