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Want a Committed Relationship, But Keep Ending Up In Situationships? Here’s Why.
You want to be in a relationship where you feel fully chosen.
Where he puts his hand on the small of your back at a party… pulls you closer… and introduces you to his friends as 'my girlfriend.’
Where you hear him say “I told my mom about you” and your heart skips a beat, because you didn’t need to ask him to.
And yet… despite being an amazing woman who has no problem attracting men…
You keep finding yourself in situations where you’ve spent months investing time and energy into a man…
And when you finally ask him “What are we?”
He calmly responds:
“I’m not looking for anything serious right now.”
And it honestly confuses you.
Part of you is starting to think that men your age just don't want to commit.
But the real problem isn’t that men your age don’t want to commit.
It’s that you go into these situations with high standards, knowing exactly what you want…
But the moment you catch feelings, you quietly abandon those standards, so you don't lose him.
You start playing it cool… acting unbothered… pretending you want less than you really do.
And you stop choosing you and your standards… hoping that it’ll make it easier for him to choose you.
I get it… you’re human.
The only problem is that… ‘playing it cool’ allows men who will never commit to keep wasting your time…
Rather than filtering them out early and making space for the man who will fully choose you.
And when you know how to show up as the woman who stays true to her standards even after catching feelings, everything changes.
That’s when you’ll be out in public together with a man who reaches for your hand first… just because you’re his and that’s what you do.
That’s when you’ll hear him say “I want you to meet my family”… and realize he’s already been planning a future that has you in it.
And that’s exactly what I’ll show you how to do inside… Fully Chosen.
It’s a 6-week 1-on-1 coaching experience where…
I’ll show you how to go from attracting men who only want something casual… to attracting a man who proudly chooses you…
By showing up as the woman who stays true to her standards even after catching feelings.
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Giovanni Chekwa
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Giovanni Chekwa
Giovanni is a transformational coach who helps smart women to go from attracting men who only want something casual… to attracting a man who proudly chooses them.
He's a graduate of Johns Hopkins University... and he lives in the Washington, D.C. metro area with his wife of over 20 years and their four children.
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